Fake it until you make it! Act as if you had all the confidence you require until it becomes your reality.’ – Brian Tracy
A little positive thinking goes a long way especially if you believe in yourself and you’ve got plenty of self-confidence. When you go through rough times – no body is exempt – your self-belief will always put you back on the right track. No matter how rich or poor you are, you’ll eventually encounter something that will hurt, sadden, disappoint, stress or anger you. These feelings are absolutely normal – you don’t have to be ashamed to admit your negative feelings to yourself. But the difference between positive and negative thinkers is that the negative ones will let these negative feelings linger, they’ll let these feelings consume their entire being. They’ll be living their lives in the shadow of their negative emotions.
The positive thinkers, on the other hand, will take all these events in stride. They know these are normal. It’s all part of the grand plan called life. They may suffer too, but they’ll always bounce back. They’re not going to remain down for long periods of time. If you want to become a better version of yourself, you’re going to need to develop a love for yourself. If you already love yourself, then good. It will be easier for you to believe in yourself and what you can do. The transition from being a shy person to one brimming with self-confidence will be easier, too.
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